Adelina, What a difficult journey you've been on. I found it so frustrating trying to figure out why my firstborn was often upset/in pain--he was a late talker/communicator and it was just such a powerless feeling not being able to be a mom-mind reader.
I'm glad you've gotten to the place where you can write about your experience as an "Allergy" mom and help your firstborn through this. I'm sure many other "Allergy" parents will relate. 💗