Adriana, I embody a frat boy slob, too, lol! Thank you for this kind and honest take on the messiness of life. I have a feeling you might appreciate the work of Stephanie Bennet Vogt who writes books about clutter--from an emotional and physical standpoint. Her view is unique and resonates with me a lot! One of her book titles is "Your Spacious Self: Clear the Clutter and Discover Who You Are".

Memoirist-in-progress. Writer down to my bone marrow. Meaningful connections are my happy place. https://aimeegramblin.medium.com/membership (affiliate link).