Kate, there's so much good here. It's calming to read and reflect upon. I love how you weave the power of ravaging fire into the story of the careful ritual of a fire ceremony and holding them both in loving thoughtfulness. Tara Brach has so many wonderful free resources. I love listening to her as I fall asleep. Such a soothing voice. I've never done a ritual like this and will plan to do so next week. I like to plant garlic on or near the Autumn equinox, too. A lovely marking of the shifting seasons and resting before growth. Thank you for your wise words.