PTBM!! My mom went gray in her 20s, her grandfather at 16. I started getting rare grays, actually white, I think, in my late 20s. In my late 30s, it picked up. I'm 42 and for the last couple years have quit dyeing my hair. It's a transition for sure. And, I'm jealous of my mom, who had silver streaks against wheat-colored hair. Mine is more of a salt and pepper affair. Anyhow, I feel much like you do and it felt great reading your insights about it!

Also, I think you gray hair is beautiful! 💗