Hi, My name is Aimée Gramblin. I’m a veteran wife (18 years and counting), badass mama jama of two kids (a teen and a tween), a writer, a nature enthusiast, and a curious soul. I’m a first generation Oklahoman, in the United States. I’ve almost moved out of state three times, but got cold feet each time. We almost moved to Atlanta, Georgia; Memphis, Tennessee, and Swansea, Wales — all for school related opportunities. We ended up moving from Norman, Oklahoma to Tulsa, Oklahoma, where we’ve lived for almost fifteen years now. It’s green, slightly hilly, a bit more progressive…
Have you ever considered swapping your spouse? Just for the sex? For some spicing up of your love life?
I’ll admit I’ve entertained the notion, and for me, it feels too risky. I don’t want to jeopardize my 20+ year partnership for some different meat sticks and creamed peaches.
I’ll also admit there are ebbs and flows to the sexual sparks in a 20+ year relationship. Sometimes we feel the sexually charged sparks of the first night we met. Other times, we feel like annoying/annoyed roommates. When we’re not busy being parents, we sometimes feel like unflavored potato chips. …
Early on it started — my head buried under the covers as I snuggled with my mom and we let our farts loudly rip. I inhaled the pungent scent of our mingling gases and enjoyed the nose-stinging assaults. I’d keep my head under the covers until the hot air and trapped farts became too intense for me and I’d emerge for a gulp of air before diving back into the pleasantly acrid bombs we produced.
When our dogs have gas, I’m impressed with the variety of odors they produce and until now secretly enjoyed the old egg aroma that sometimes…
Playwright Neil Simon’s movie The Goodbye Girl holds a special place in my heart from watching the precocious 9 year old kid star, Lucy, when I was about the same age as her, living with my single mom. It turns out the movie’s backstory is as fascinating as the movie itself and offers a real-life example of writers knowing when to “kill our darlings.”
The writing advice to “kill your darlings” has been passed down to writers for centuries. …
Sometimes I feel suffocated
dryer than dirt in drought in Oklahoma summer
thirsty and forlorn
dusty and forgotten
downtrodden and angsty as a teenager who
hasn’t seen friends for weeks on end
Sometimes it feels like through my veins
run poems — words blooming lush
from well-watered gardens
attention to detail, emotion, invocation
tending my vocation daily
burning words onto the screen
into my brain — read, read, read
Tornado tsunami hurricane lightning brain
Red button panic
My poetic body withdraws, runs dry
overwhelmed by stats, comments, claps, expectations, opportunities
environmental upheaval, clutter — my home…
Daily we are bombarded with productivity hacks, self-help coaches, and personal growth challenges. We are inundated with ads to lose weight, look younger, and gain more energy. We get on the American Dream Treadmill™ and reach Destination Burnout™.
It’s time to quiet your mind and kindly go inward to tap into your intuitive voice of inner guidance. Wisdom and knowledge are inside you, waiting to be accessed — by you.
As we become adults, at least where I live, in the United States, culturally we are expected to accept the current societal values with no questions or second-guessing. At 17…
If you write on this platform, you know what I’m talking about. For the last month-plus, tag bombing on this platform has been out of hand — and I’m not Tim Denning popular, you know?
I want to pull out my hair when I see notification after notification that I’ve been blanket-tagged in someone’s work, like this:
My 10-year-old daughter metaphorically turned 13–21 when she literally turned 9 years old.
My 13-year-old son hit his angsty adolescence at about the same age.
They bicker and fight and bicker and fight and fight and bicker and yell and scream and rage at each other.
It is summer, after all.
It’s about 6 weeks into summer and I’m ready for the kids to go back to school. If that makes me a terrible mom, I’ll take it. If you empathize, I’m here to tell you, you aren’t a terrible parent. We all get sick of the ones we love…